My husband is in the U.S. Army and has asked me for a legal separation, what, if any benefits would I still be entitled too if we were separated? Also my husband is being rumored to be sleeping with a married woman to whom he serves as a team leader he's an E-5 she's an E-2, how much trouble could this cause him if this rumor spreads to the wrong

Usually in a divorce, the couple that is divorcing needs to make the decision about who is going to keep the house. They need to work this out on their own or make sure that the courts address it. You have to make the decision about what will be done with the property. There are many different options and it is important to make sure that the deci

One of the hardest things for any person, man or woman, is letting go of a relationship that's not meant to be. We are often attached to the illusion that this person is "the One" for us, and that if we don't have him or her, we'll never find somebody new. Holding on to disappointment, hurt, blame, anger, resentment, and bitterness, we convince

The church has too often been quick to condemn. Jesus though rarely condemned anybody. Indeed, to be quite blunt about it, the only people we see Jesus condemn in the New Testament are not weak and sinful people who have failed, but pompous, self-righteous religious people who think the sun shines out of them. In line with that, let me suggest t

The hardest part of a divorce is being alone. You have to learn how to do everything alone. You have to learn to live alone, to do things out side of the home alone, to sleep alone, and to eat alone. Have you ever sat in a restaurant alone? Did you feel weird? Do you feel like you don't fit in being a single? Well don't fret because you will be abl

Getting divorced is hard any most people that have to go through it. It is a time that is considered very sensitive for most. This is not something that many people look forward to and in fact it can be something that is very disruptive to their lives. This is especially true when it comes to dealing with the in laws. When you are dealing with

Sadly, when it comes to divorces, no matter what the reason, the children are the ones who suffer the most. This is especially true in situations involving adultery or abuse. Certainly there are situations where minimal contact with the father and his children is justified, such as in cases of abuse, especially sexual abuse; however, this is not th

Did you know psychologists concur that having a relationship break up is like going through grief? Contrasting grieving and getting over a break up, you can probably see why. In both cases you lose someone you loved and you're unwilling to psychologically let them go. By using similar principles to grieving for someone, you can get over a relations

I'm sure you understand that divorce is a legal conclusion of marriage according to the law. So finding a divorce lawyer to help you normally is the way to go. Finding the best divorce lawyer can be helpful in getting through this tough time. The relationship between you and your spouse is personal and privileged. Going through divorce does not

A man I once treated was neglected in foster homes from birth to age 2, when the real trouble began. His adoptive father hated him. He was yelled at, beaten, thrown out to agencies, brought back, cursed, ignored, insulted, and belittled until he was farmed out permanently to a boy's home in his early teens. His adoptive mother, living in terror

Divorce rate has risen to a phenomenal level in the past decade. This trend of rising divorce rate may very well be fueled by the divorces we see in show business everyday. However, the major contributor to a divorce is the lack of understanding between couples. As long as a couple is willing to learn how to stop a divorce, all is not lost. The

"To the unmarried and to the widows I say that it is well for them to remain single as I do."? (1 Corinthians 7:8) The immortal words of St. Paul, who quite possibly had experienced the pain of separation and divorce first hand prior to penning these words, and who certainly dealt with relationship breakdowns in every church he pastored. I

Some of the worst acts of violence and rape committed against women are committed by men who said they loved them devoutly. Women are physically and mentally brutalized, and often can't leave out of fear of losing their children, for economic concerns or for the safety of their children or themselves. The Department of Justice which keeps stati

It seems like we've been covering most of my least favourite Bible passages of late, so perhaps I should have expected this one to come along - "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her". Another winner! And what a good passage to have on the day of a baptism! Certainly it serves as a subtle way of informing any

When a crisis hits - the end of a marriage, the loss of a job, or the death of a loved one - it throws you into a complete tailspin. Suddenly your world is no longer safe and secure. What can you do to pick up the pieces and take the first steps toward living a full life again? Lisa was divorced when her son was still in grade school. Soon af