Your woman is gone and you want to get her back. If you're going to succeed, you should know why women dump men. Now, she may have told you why she dumped you. But that may not be the underlying reason that she's gone. You need to understand the real reason why women dump men.

It's not that you left the toilet seat up again, or worked late again or whatever it is that she told you as she packed her things. Even the way she saw you looking at that young hottie in the miniskirt is probably not the real reason she left. Those are annoyances, but they're not the true reason why women dump men.

In many cases, the underlying reason why women dump men is that they don't feel appreciated. That's right. Whether you actually do appreciate her on not, she didn't feel that you did. A woman will put up with a lot if she feels that you need her and appreciate all the things she does for you. But if she senses that you don't really appreciate her, that you're just going through the motions, it won't matter how nice a house you have, or how big the gifts you give her. You won't have her heart.

She probably did all sorts of things to show you how much she cares. You know, the little notes in your lunch, the phone calls to tell you she's thinking of you. Whatever it was, she made the effort. She was always doing little things to let you know she cared.

How did you show her you appreciated her? Did you listen (I mean actually paying attention and everything) to her when she wanted to tell you about her day? Did you tell her you loved her before you left for work in the morning? Did you ever hold her and touch her without immediately trying to get her into bed? Did you do the little things that show you appreciate having her in your life?

Most guys stink at this. After all, they took her out to dinner last week & listened to her go on and on about whatever it was she was going on about. It's been a hard day and there's a game on tonight. Either they just assume that she knows they love her, or they give her big gifts a few times a year, take her out to dinner once in a while, and assume all is well.

While the big gifts & nice dinners are welcome, it really is the little things that count when it comes to showing her that you appreciate her. Lack of those little things is usually the underlying reason why women dump men. Knowing this brings you one step closer to getting back together.

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