Drat, your lover has left on business or family and you want to have some hot phone sex to keep the sexual tension high and the relationship sexy.

Phone sex and dirty talking can be a real turn on and it can be very erotic. The following is some tips to make your next phone sex session very sexy.

The first tip is to make sure you will have at least 30 minutes of uninterrupted time. Turn of the mobile phone and lock the door! Get your kids to have a sleep over.

The second tip for some great phone sex is to describe everything in a lot of detail. Talk about all the senses, so include the smells, the sensations of touch and your feelings. The more vivid you make it the more your lover will feel it in their body.

For example, if you are describing a fantasy of being on a beach, describe the sounds of the surf and the sea gulls squawking. Describe the sand molding to your body and the heat of the sun on your naked body and how this is turning you on.

As you are not present with your lover, you need to be more erotic and hotter than usual. Describe some fantasies that you would never try in real life.

So be naughty and wild and you can't go wrong.

Tune into what your partner is saying and how they are breathing. You can tell how aroused they are just by listening.

Make sure you tell your partner how turned on you are by making erotic sounds of pleasure. So really enjoy yourself and let your lover know this by your sounds and energy.

Many of us carry some shame about our sexuality from our past upbringing. This shame makes us uncomfortable to fully express our sexuality in sounds and moans.

So just grow up a bit and challenge yourself if you have this issue and your lover will feel your energy much more.

Make use of the usual 4 letter words instead of penis or vulva. Add words like hot, wet, dripping, to the 4 letter words to spice up the energy.

Some women when they are in their full sexual energy like to be called slutty or my slut.

One needs to introduce dirty talking like this with some care. Some women might react negatively to this type of strong dirty talking.

However, in my experience with many women, most love real hot and real dirty.

Most men are just too timid in bed.

Phone sex can be a great way to stay close even though your lover is hundreds of miles away

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